Get Out Of My Bedroom

I'm not the typical guy to hate on feminism. In fact, I consider myself a huge ally to that movement. And there was a point when I proudly referred to myself as a feminist.

Nowadays I find labels more obstructive then helpful. They lead to many petty arguments and I tend to find myself more misrepresented than understood. Besides, fuck a label.

Fuck a label because I may fall asleep one way and wake up another. We are constantly growing day to day. So fuck labels. I'll introduce myself as Devon and let you know what's on my mind that day. That's the power of a blog. It can at least show me in a certain light that allows me to explain how I'm feeling. So no, I don't consider myself a "feminist". But if you tally up my philosophies and priorities you may find that i'm a little more productive than those in that camp.

The importance is self-regulation. And I had a gender studies prof who described feminism as a discourse that absorbs it's own criticism and adjusts accordingly. Which is great..in theory. But I find in most gender studies (aka womans studies) classrooms I find people unwilling or unable to entertain certain ideas that may be critical of feminism.

The title of this blog is "Get out of my bedroom" and it's a message to feminism.

I don't have to explain my boners to you. If it's there-then it's there. I'm not going to blush and try and excuse my boner. Sometimes I get hard for absolutely no reason. Case in point-my morning boners in physics class. Anyways, just wanted to start off by saying yeah..I'm not going to excuse myself for what turns me on.

And neither should my girl. (If she existed). But if I had a girl she shouldn't have to be ashamed or embarassed about wanting to suck my dick. Or cook me dinner. Or do some of the things that women were perhaps forced to do decades ago. She should be allowed to be herself. And so should I/ So what if I think kim kardashian looks like shit in her new dress? I dislike kim and throw petty insults at her at times-so what, i'm a fucking human.

You know what? I have good relations with females because i'm a good person. But i don't need to prove shit to anyone.  I don't need to make apologies for my fetishes or the fact I like to fuck with the lights on.

Power, in my humble opinion, is the ability to be a slut at any time we want. So don't look down your noses at me.

You're taking things far too seriously if you're worried about what goes down in my bedroom.

Labels and joining a "group" seems to lead to this odd sort of irony. The finger pointing just continues...

-dev