Every once in awhile on the blog I take some time to give guys some advice.
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Relationships come with expected drama. And well, arguments will happen no matter what. But one common argument I see a lot that can be prevented goes as such :
Girl wants to go out with friends. Guy doesn't want to go out for whatever reason. Regardless, girl still wants to go out and have fun. Argument ensues because guy doesn't want to "let" the girl go out without him. Or he doesn't want to girl to leave him at home. They are a couple..right?
Well i'm going to say let the girl go out and have fun. And i'm saying that because what..the..fuck..is the matter?
-The guy is obviously insecure as shit if he thinks the girl is going out to grind on other random dudes.
-The guy obviously has a trust issue with the girl.
-The guy is thinking too much about himself
-And this comes off as clingy/obsessive
The list goes on and on. This is all about confidence dudes. Be a little confident that you are the person your girlfriend wants to be with.
Also, this is some valuable time to relax and play some video games. Or do some independant shit like learn chess! You should enjoy the fact that your girl is happy and dancing it up with her friends. And guess what? Chances are you'll be rewarded for your kindness.
Too many guys dig their own grave by trying to be over macho and protective. As a matter of fact, what the fuck does macho do for guys anyways? Embrace who you are. You'll attract the right type of woman this way.
Insecurity is never a good look.
-devon
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