There's this thing about being a guy. A single dude at that. I'm not into hurting people. And i'm not into the idea of being shit-talked or having rumours spread about me. When it comes to the opposite sex right now my stance is rather interesting. On one hand I want to just experience woman. I want them around and I want to have sex with them. But I'm not looking for a relationship. That being said, of course if the woman of my dreams were to knock on my door I would happily scoop her up. So I would enter a relationship if that happened. But in the mean time, is it moral for me to enjoy random sex? Of course it's moral in my eyes. But do girls expect more from me?
What you need is to find someone who has the same train of thought as you do. The hard part is..call me cocky here. But im likable. I'm a likable guy who doesn't try to bring the world down around me. So I'm not your typical type of guy to do the whole slam bam thank ya mam kinda thing. I feel like there's this whole secret society of people just enjoying random sex. How do I get into that?
There's also the problem of how you present yourself. I can't go around and ask female friends if they want to have sex. Or can i? Wouldn't it be safer? I have lots of girls that are just casual friends. We're not best friends. So nothing would really change if we had sex. It would just be like " oh thats what you look like naked" I don't have the hang ups other people do. For me its like ok we're hanging out. Now we're having sex. Then we go back to hanging out. So it seems like an ideal situation because there's not this huge friendship on the line. If you guys don't like eachother romantically or the sex wasn't that great. oh well, back to being friends.
I guess just in general I don't know why we aren't fucking eachother more often. In 2013 i'm putting myself out there as someone that's into casual sex. Sorry, i'm not going to ask you out just to have sex with you. After going through a breakup-fuck that. I'm not emotionally investing myself in you just to fuck. Sex isn't solely for a committed couple.
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